If you can't do it because his phone is locked then leave your phone at home and make up an excuse to have to use his when you are both out somewhere. Tinder is a great one to test because it matches within proximity. Women whom he says he went to school with are strangers that he has been talking dirty to It seems you already have your answer that something untoward is happening.
Make a profile on some of the dating sites you suspect. If he is talking dirty to strangers online then he is up to something deceitful.
Most of these tempting so-called Canadian affair websites take advantage of men who are driven by desire.
One such horny man is less likely to be aware of scams and to use his reasoning at full potential.
Popular affair websites include Married Cafe.com, No Strings Attached.com, Friend Finder.com, and XPress.com, but dating sites like Match.com, e Harmony, and Ok are popular, as well.
And then lie on top of it when confronted about it. All I ask is BE HONEST, OWN YOUR DIRT, & STOP PASSING BLAME/MAKING EXCUSES.
If all else fails, you can engage professional investigators to find out for certain whether your signifigant other is using a dating site.
The first step is to be aware of common dating sites and apps (many of which are intended to look inconspicuous) so that if you stumble upon them on your spouse’s phone or web browser history, you’ll recognize them.
I wrote this article about a husband using dating sites before the Ashley Madison(Intl Bus. I was personally thrilled by the ultimatum given to the company, because offering illicit escapades to a married person having marriage trouble is like offering wine to an alcoholic.
The first reaction in your mind is going to be self-protective, accompanied by fear.